Uh huh, you did didn’t you? You missed my birthday again.
That is ok. I will forgive you for that considering you may not have even known when it was.
However forgiving you does not include forgetting and if you want me to forget you are going to have to make it up to me.
How?
Well it is very easy just click on the cute Mommy blogger picture to the right of this post and all will be good in Gracieland again.
Now that was easy this year but next year I may ask your to run a marathon.
Happy belated birthday Gracie.. The only thing worse than getting older is not getting older.
I know from your writing that you have been facing some pretty amazing trials. Hang in there girl. What did Paul say about perseverance?
Good luck my friend.
Thanks for the birthday wishes but next year you had better be baking me a cake. lol
Gracie, I want you to know that although I raised an awesome child after God’s own heart I am broken and not anywhere close to a Godly Man. I was able to raise my daughter to seek God’s grace through Jesus before I was attacked by the narcissists in my life and for that I will be eternally grateful Soul separation is a bitch to go through and after you get through it you are empty. Thank you for being there for me during this empty phase of recovery.
I still miss the one I loved but she is dead now. It is very very hard.
You are welcome and your ex is not dead but the love she had for you is, it is time to let go of your love for her now and start to regain love for yourself.
Gracie, I read today’s post and yea!!! I think you know what I mean. I have always told you that you write from your heart and it speaks to a lot of people. Your experiences are so closely related to others so when I/we read your words there is a connection, and an emotional one at that.
You are a very good writer and it is my great honor to be your friend.
Well that path travels both ways dear about the honor as a friend part at least. Thank you for the praise.
Have I told you about my Sunday afternoon date yet? She was texting me before I got out of the parking lot.
And, are you watching the ice skating tonight. Call me a pansy if you want but I am a guy that enjoys the pure beauty and elegance of ice skating, especially the couples events.
no, but that is the story I am interested in not the Olympics silly boy.]
No i am not watching the ice skating, nor do I care but what is up with the Sunday afternoon dating chick? Shit calling you as you are on your way out of the parking lot is NOT cool she did NOT have my permission to do that. lol
Just got back from my second date with a second woman. She was smokin hot. I only made one blunder that I can think of so i am getting better. We ended our date with her saying softly in my ear “call me tomorrow” That’s got to be a good sign.
3rd date with third woman on Friday. This is kinda fun, but expensive.
Sounds like it could be very expensive. I am at the point where I only allow myself one social expense a week.Usually it is related to a networking event so it is a write off.
Gracie, you have been there done that but this is all new to me. I am just getting the hang of what it takes attract and keep the ladies attention. First, they do not like shy reserved guys.
So now I have a little problem. Have you ever been fishin where you had three or four poles in the water waiting for a bite on one of them. Sometimes they all hit at the same time. This morning, I mean starting at 6:30 am I got my first text and at 8 another from two different woman. I can’t even tell you what the one at 12:13 am last night said. This is a family Blog.
Read todays Graceformyheart post. I need to read it over and over again.
Sheesh, first of all they seem desperate and although they may soothe your bruised ego desperation is not a good bed partner. Second if a girl is getty nasty with you so soon in a relationship it is sure to go down the wrong path. Remember your values and your God and the Bible and the many references to sexual immorality not being a good thing and yes I do feel like your mother right now and I am more than capable of spanking a grown man.So you had better be good! lol
Gracie, you got to remember what I went through for 10 years. Being told I don’t dress good enough, I am not a good kisser, your not as good at whatever as so and so, no one would want to go out with you, you know the usual stuff Narcissists say. And then you start to believe them and incorporate their thoughts into your own being.
So yes, it is an ego boost for a smokin hot lady to make the statement that I must have lots of dates. And she was all too happy to kiss me in a very, lets just say it was a lot of fun.
But I also know when you cross the line and sleep with someone it opens an whole new can of worms. No pun intended.
I am going to Bible Study at 6:15 in the morning with my golf buddy. I have given you a G rated version of both dates so far.
Good Night Gracie.
G rated is all I need dear. Keep your pants zipped.